Monday, January 5, 2015
You're Engaged, Now What? Six Steps to Take Right After Becoming Engaged
Congratulations on your engagement! This is such an exciting time in your life and you don't want to be stressed out BUT you probably are. You've been waiting for him to propose and now that he has, everything is coming at you at high-speed. Many of my clients say that they had an idea of what they wanted their wedding to look like but once they got engaged, all of that went out the window. The engagement period really should be a time to celebrate this next step in your relationship, not a time to be consumed with planning and stress. Here are six planning steps to take within the first month of your engagement that will help take away some of that stress.
1. Pick a date or two. Picking a date gives you direction in the beginning. You may have a venue in mind that you've always wanted to be married in but they may be booked on your date. If you're flexible you may find more success in booking a venue.
2. Sit down with your fiancé and put together a budget. You won't know exactly what things cost immediately but come up with a number that you are comfortable with spending. If the average cost of a wedding in your city is $55,000 but you can only spend $30,000, that's your number. Now is not the time to try to keep up with the Joneses.
3. Hire a wedding planner. It kills me when I hear people say that a friend of a friend or their aunt who "does events" is going to handle their wedding. There is so much more to planning a wedding than fluffing your dress right before you walk down the aisle. We're here to ensure that you make it TO the aisle! Figure out what the most important things are that you are looking for in a planner and while you're interviewing, keep those them in mind. Don't hire someone based solely on their Instagram account or their pricing alone. Ask for references and talk to their previous clients. If you think it's expensive to hire a professional, try hiring an amateur. Trust me on this one.
4. Find a venue. Your venue will help you determine your guest list. If your dream venue can only hold 100 people but you have at least 200 that you want to invite, keep looking. This part takes a little bit of time because you have to make appointments to see each venue. Put together a list of 3 that you like and start there.
5. Make a guest list. I always tell my clients to make 3 lists. Your first consists of your family and friends who you would put into your lifeboat if you were on a sinking ship. You have limited space on this lifeboat so make those people count. Second, make a list of the people who you would add onto your boat if there were a few extra seats. These are cousins who you talk to at Christmas time and that's it. You'd like to see them at your wedding but if they aren't there, it won't ruin your day. The final list consists of those coworkers who you see 40 hours a week and commiserate about work with but you wouldn't pick up the phone to call them after 5:00pm. Remember that you have to feed each guest and that's where a huge chunk of your budget will go. If you wouldn't pay $100 for their meal, don't invite them. Making a guest list should be taken that seriously.
6. Designate a wedding-free time-zone. As involved as your fiancé may be, he doesn't want to talk about wedding details every day for the next year. No one wants to do that, not even you. There really isn't a need to talk about your wedding every day during your engagement. That's why you hire a planner to handle all of the little details so that your relationship doesn't become all about your wedding. Remember that you still have to take care of your relationship.
Wednesday, March 6, 2013
Thursday, December 27, 2012
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From "I Will" to "I Do": I Can’t Afford to Pay for All My Bridesmaids’ Hair...
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Friday, July 13, 2012
Why Hire a Planner??
Why do I need planner? In a word, STRESS!! Almost every bride today has had a vision of their wedding day since childhood. She sees only the beauty and the glamour of being "Queen for a Day" in her vision.
Unfortunately, to get to all of the beauty of a perfect day, it takes between 100 and 200 hours of planning. Once realized, this is when the panic sets in and the dynamics change greatly!!
Todays bride need to think:
- Do I have 100 to 200 hours to plan this wedding?
- Do I know all of the best vendors that fit my vision and my budget?
- Do I know the proper etiquette?
- Do I have the patience to deal with all of the emotional personalities that become involved in every wedding?
- Do I tolerate stress well or will I become the dreaded "Bridezilla"?
As a professional wedding planner, otherwise known as a bridal consultant or wedding coordinator, will be able to work with your budget to help you create the dream of a perfect wedding day because:
- The wedding planner is equipped to do the job FULL TIME
- The planner is trained to know all of the element necessary for your particular ceremony and reception
- The planner has worked with wedding professionals and has relationships that can often get you the best quality at a reduced price
- The planner will work with your schedule to set up vendor meetings
- The planner will set up meetings only with the vendors that meet your budgetary requirements
With all of this considered, now you can relax and concentrate on shopping for a wedding planner that will work well with you!!
Unfortunately, to get to all of the beauty of a perfect day, it takes between 100 and 200 hours of planning. Once realized, this is when the panic sets in and the dynamics change greatly!!
Todays bride need to think:
- Do I have 100 to 200 hours to plan this wedding?
- Do I know all of the best vendors that fit my vision and my budget?
- Do I know the proper etiquette?
- Do I have the patience to deal with all of the emotional personalities that become involved in every wedding?
- Do I tolerate stress well or will I become the dreaded "Bridezilla"?
As a professional wedding planner, otherwise known as a bridal consultant or wedding coordinator, will be able to work with your budget to help you create the dream of a perfect wedding day because:
- The wedding planner is equipped to do the job FULL TIME
- The planner is trained to know all of the element necessary for your particular ceremony and reception
- The planner has worked with wedding professionals and has relationships that can often get you the best quality at a reduced price
- The planner will work with your schedule to set up vendor meetings
- The planner will set up meetings only with the vendors that meet your budgetary requirements
With all of this considered, now you can relax and concentrate on shopping for a wedding planner that will work well with you!!
Friday, February 3, 2012
The Bling Event~~Sunday February 26, 2012
TO ALL BLING BRIDES...
Join us at this spectacular Bridal Show at The Elan in Lodi, NJ to support Brides Against Breast Cancer. Click on the link below to register ASAP!!
http://www.theblingevent.com/event/the-bling-event-presents-the-bling-bridal-showcase-its-all-about-the-bling/
The Bling Event Presents a BLING Bridal Showcase
for the BRIDE WHO LOVES
Are you a Bling Bride? If so join us on
Sunday, February 26, 2012
for a Luxury Bridal Showcase with BLING inspired
Dream Wedding Designs, a BLING Bridal Fashion Show and Exclusive Vendors.
FEATURING MUSICAL ENTERTAINMENT BY BLANC NOIR EVENT GROUP
FREE ENGAGEMENT PORTRAIT SESSION withJOEL SIMPSON PHOTOGRAPHY!
HONEYMOON GIVEAWAY IN CABO SAN LUCAS and other exciting prizes!
$10 admission, $15 at the door
100% of ticket proceeds benefitBrides Against Breast Cancer
Join us at this spectacular Bridal Show at The Elan in Lodi, NJ to support Brides Against Breast Cancer. Click on the link below to register ASAP!!
http://www.theblingevent.com/event/the-bling-event-presents-the-bling-bridal-showcase-its-all-about-the-bling/
The Bling Event Presents a BLING Bridal Showcase
for the BRIDE WHO LOVES
Are you a Bling Bride? If so join us on
Sunday, February 26, 2012
for a Luxury Bridal Showcase with BLING inspired
Dream Wedding Designs, a BLING Bridal Fashion Show and Exclusive Vendors.
FEATURING MUSICAL ENTERTAINMENT BY BLANC NOIR EVENT GROUP
FREE ENGAGEMENT PORTRAIT SESSION withJOEL SIMPSON PHOTOGRAPHY!
HONEYMOON GIVEAWAY IN CABO SAN LUCAS and other exciting prizes!
$10 admission, $15 at the door
100% of ticket proceeds benefitBrides Against Breast Cancer
Thursday, December 16, 2010
Fabulous Party for a Wonderful Charity!!!! Come join us!!!
Cocktail Party to celebrate the official launch of Wish Upon A Wedding New Jersey!
West Orange, New Jersey - 12/13/2010 - The New Jersey Chapter of Wish Upon A Wedding will celebrate its official launch with a swanky cocktail party on January 18, 2011 at The Estate at Florentine Gardens in River Vale from 6:30PM to 9:30PM.
The lavish and newly renovated Estate at Florentine Gardens, located at 97 Rivervale Rd in River Vale, NJ, will host the organization's posh event featuring cocktails, music, entertainment and even a few fun surprises. To help make this a truly spectacular event, New Jersey wedding and event professionals & vendors will be donating their time, products & services. Guests who wish to make a donation to the organization will receive swag bags filled with incredible discounts, samples & goodies.
Wish Upon a Wedding is the world's first nonprofit wish granting organization providing weddings and vow renewals for couples facing terminal illness and serious life-altering circumstances, regardless of sexual orientation. Officially launched in January of 2010, Wish Upon a Wedding currently has over 16 active chapters to serve Wish Applicants and will have granted 12 wishes by the end of 2010. In addition to celebrating the inauguration of the local chapter, the WUW NJ board members hope to raise awareness and invite those within and outside of the wedding industry to get involved.
The chapter is asking for a suggested donation of $20 per person at the party. Donations will go directly towards helping to grant wishes to deserving couples. To RSVP please visit the chapters home page www.tinyurl.com/njwuwlaunch. If you are a vendor and would like to contribute to the swag bag, please contact the chapter's Marketing Chair, Marni Gold at info@customcreativecardboxes.com. For more information on the Wish Upon A Wedding organization, please visit http://wishuponawedding.org/***
West Orange, New Jersey - 12/13/2010 - The New Jersey Chapter of Wish Upon A Wedding will celebrate its official launch with a swanky cocktail party on January 18, 2011 at The Estate at Florentine Gardens in River Vale from 6:30PM to 9:30PM.
The lavish and newly renovated Estate at Florentine Gardens, located at 97 Rivervale Rd in River Vale, NJ, will host the organization's posh event featuring cocktails, music, entertainment and even a few fun surprises. To help make this a truly spectacular event, New Jersey wedding and event professionals & vendors will be donating their time, products & services. Guests who wish to make a donation to the organization will receive swag bags filled with incredible discounts, samples & goodies.
Wish Upon a Wedding is the world's first nonprofit wish granting organization providing weddings and vow renewals for couples facing terminal illness and serious life-altering circumstances, regardless of sexual orientation. Officially launched in January of 2010, Wish Upon a Wedding currently has over 16 active chapters to serve Wish Applicants and will have granted 12 wishes by the end of 2010. In addition to celebrating the inauguration of the local chapter, the WUW NJ board members hope to raise awareness and invite those within and outside of the wedding industry to get involved.
The chapter is asking for a suggested donation of $20 per person at the party. Donations will go directly towards helping to grant wishes to deserving couples. To RSVP please visit the chapters home page www.tinyurl.com/njwuwlaunch. If you are a vendor and would like to contribute to the swag bag, please contact the chapter's Marketing Chair, Marni Gold at info@customcreativecardboxes.com. For more information on the Wish Upon A Wedding organization, please visit http://wishuponawedding.org/***
Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Why do I need a Wedding Planner???
Why do I need planner? In a word, STRESS!! Almost every bride today has had a vision of their wedding day since childhood. She sees only the beauty and the glamour of being "Queen for a Day" in her vision.
Unfortunately, to get to all of the beauty of a perfect day, it takes between 100 and 200 hours of planning. Once realized, this is when the panic sets in and the dynamics change greatly!!
Todays bride need to think:
- Do I have 100 to 200 hours to plan this wedding?
- Do I know all of the best vendors that fit my vision and my budget?
- Do I know the proper etiquette?
- Do I have the patience to deal with all of the emotional personalities that become involved in every wedding?
- Do I tolerate stress well or will I become the dreaded "Bridezilla"?
As a professional wedding planner, otherwise known as a bridal consultant or wedding coordinator, will be able to work with your budget to help you create the dream of a perfect wedding day because:
- The wedding planner is equipped to do the job FULL TIME
- The planner is trained to know all of the element necessary for your particular ceremony and reception
- The planner has worked with wedding professionals and has relationships that can often get you the best quality at a reduced price
- The planner will work with your schedule to set up vendor meetings
- The planner will set up meetings only with the vendors that meet your budgetary requirements
With all of this considered, now you can relax and concentrate on shopping for a wedding planner that will work well with you!!
Unfortunately, to get to all of the beauty of a perfect day, it takes between 100 and 200 hours of planning. Once realized, this is when the panic sets in and the dynamics change greatly!!
Todays bride need to think:
- Do I have 100 to 200 hours to plan this wedding?
- Do I know all of the best vendors that fit my vision and my budget?
- Do I know the proper etiquette?
- Do I have the patience to deal with all of the emotional personalities that become involved in every wedding?
- Do I tolerate stress well or will I become the dreaded "Bridezilla"?
As a professional wedding planner, otherwise known as a bridal consultant or wedding coordinator, will be able to work with your budget to help you create the dream of a perfect wedding day because:
- The wedding planner is equipped to do the job FULL TIME
- The planner is trained to know all of the element necessary for your particular ceremony and reception
- The planner has worked with wedding professionals and has relationships that can often get you the best quality at a reduced price
- The planner will work with your schedule to set up vendor meetings
- The planner will set up meetings only with the vendors that meet your budgetary requirements
With all of this considered, now you can relax and concentrate on shopping for a wedding planner that will work well with you!!
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